Much love, Shaudeh Farjami

1. Be the energy you want to attract.

2. People pleasing hides the real you.

3. People are allowed to decide they want nothing to do with you without any explanation. Hard pill to swallow, but take it like a champ.

4. The time you spend with yourself is as valuable as the time you spend with those around you. Learn to be comfortable with being alone. You spend so much time in your own head, so make it a happy place to be. Give yourself the same love you give the people you love. Your relationship with yourself needs to be nurtured.

5. Take photos often, the present is fleeting.

6. Never forget to tell someone you love them.

7. Always think long term. Time is so precious, so you need to maximize it.

8. It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed. Dance in public and always sign up for karaoke when the opportunity arises.

9. Patience is one of the softest forms of love.

10. You are a product of the top 5 people you surround yourself with.

11. Expect nothing and appreciate everything. If you have no expectations, you will never be disappointed.

12. If it doesn’t matter in 5 hours, 5 days, or 5 weeks, it’s not worth stressing. If it’s out of your hands, it deserves to be free from your mind as well.

13. Celebrate and romanticize every accomplishment or acheivement.

14. Put more time aside for family. Call your family often and never forget to respond to that “Good morning!” text. Tell them u love them often and always hug your siblings back.

15. The only person you should compare yourself to is your past self. Ignore what everyone else is doing or achieving. Your life is about smashing your own goals. Outdo your past, no other people.

16. If you weren’t ready, you wouldn’t have the opportunity.

17. Speak even if your voice shakes. Do not go through life being small, silent, and accommodating. Never feel guilty for doing what’s best for you.

18. If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no.

19. The right person makes you fall in love with yourself too.

20. Commit to habits and routines that good for you, even when you don’t want to. Keep your space clean, sleep well, move your body, and fuel it as it deserves.

21. When you are nervous, it means you care about something. Get excited!

22. Being delusional is the highest form of manifestation.

Much love,

Shaudeh Farjami