Much love, Shaudeh Farjami

Accept, allow, and move on: welcome to your comeback era. A comeback era is distinguished by a mindset shift. I will be prioritizing my joy, positivity, and peace. Following this guide, I encourage you to do the same. 

Realistically, this has been a weird couple of months for me. Nonetheless, I have learned a lot, I have grown a lot. I have fostered relationships with people who have changed my life for the better, letting go of people and entities that anchored a negative toll on my life. Treading unknown territory in this transition has been weird, but that is normal. Weird blimps are so, so fine. Blaming it on the mercury retrograde, that shit is weird. 

Reclaim your internal power, and finish off the last 2.5 months of 2022 strong. Allow the emotions from the last few months to show through, and accept them. You are allowed to feel the way you do. Whether the emotions are good or bad, you are not selfish for acknowledging them. Make yourself vulnerable, and validate yourself. Give yourself permission to let go of the feelings and move on. Pinpoint what it is that has been consuming you from being your best self. Perhaps you let go of it the last few months, and that’s what caused this funk. Whatever or whoever that may be, it is totally over. It is done, next chapter. Recenter your focus to loving yourself, nurturing yourself, and doing what fulfills you. 

With that introduction, the vibes are skyrocketing. Motivation is at an all time high. I am working to reinspire myself, get back in. I challenge you to get personal with these last few months. Going out on a limb with this memoir of channeling inspirational vibes. Frankly once again, it is advice I am challenging myself with as well. 

Quit searching for happiness, someone, or something. Find the fulfillment in yourself and let it all come to you. To do so, tap into your intuition and participate in experiences that make you feel good. On the flip side, distinguish entities that do not make you feel good. Look them in the eye, and respectfully say “No thank you.” The truth of the matter is that when your mindset is right, everything will come to you with time. You attract it. Do not allow it to go the other way around. To be honest, I have been hyper focused on searching for that purpose, instead of finding confidence in my power as a magnet of energy. I am a firm believer that everything that is meant to be in store for you will come with time. Do not stress about finding the right person or right path. What is meant to be will find you.  If someone or something brings you happiness, it is not a waste of time. Be aware of those who compliment your energy and motivate you to be a better person. If you do not keep your eyes open, you might just let them slip by. Stay open to new people and experiences.

You have 24 hours in a day, 7 days in a week, 52 weeks in a year. That is it. Just think of how fast this year has flown by. Essentially, you only have a select amount of energy to exert. Do not waste that energy on things that are out of your control. What you can control is setting up your day to make yourself magnetic. Let the person, thing, or passion draw to you. After failed attempts of finding someone who treats me the way all deserve to be treated, failed attempts of finding indomitable passion, and failed attempts of taking proper care of myself, I will not stop telling you how important your mindset is in this process. If something fuels your passion and happiness, put in the effort to make it happen. 

Unfortunately, your mindset will not change just because you purchased new skincare products from Drunk Elephant. Nor will it change if you go on a daily hot girl walk. Yes, it might help. But that is not all of it. Start with speaking kindly to yourself and those around you. You do not need to follow someone else’s lifestyle routine to find peace, do what brings you happiness. Be a magnet to positive experiences, people, and entities by means of your magnetic dynamism. 

When all is said and done, I am in a state of constant reflection. I wish the Shaudeh I knew three months ago could see where she is now. She is studying what passions her at an institution that compliments her drive. She comes home every day to roommates who encourage her to be the best version of herself, encouraging her energy. She has forged new connections and relationships. She has adopted new habits to fuel the healthiest, happiest era yet. While there is always work to be done, I have shifted my mindset to invest only in what brings me joy and positivity.

Much love,

Shaudeh Farjami